Well as far as that goes off camera I understand. That can be seen by anyone however flash backs and in thought shouldn't count against a person. If I say on Mandii that in my head I called someone stupid you can't hear that, it is in my head. The same applys for flash backs, it is in my head not out in public is what I meant. I've been in places that people have said something about my off camera and used it against me, and that I can see working out because even on off camera people can hear it or see it. You can't see or hear inner thoughts or flash backs was my thing.