Brother, take all the time you need, man. It may seem like secondary motive(seeing as we have a match together), but I really do hope you do what you need, man. As much as people love to hate me, or hate me in general, we're still a family in our own way, and we want nothing the best for one another. I am sorry for your loss, and you don't have to deal with us, if it means you're putting off your own needs.

Take as much time as you need. We're here for you if you need us.