OOC: I once started a thread asking for people to select on a poll which type of activity they prefer, just so people are less likely to offend someone. The post was mostly about "selling" versus crapping on gimmicks, etc... but it could also apply to wanting to be contacted for segments, attacks, etc...

This was the original thread: http://xwf99.com/showthread.php?tid=36821
The poll basically asks if you like to be surprised and will sell anything (even attacks) or if you have a more strict outlook. The fourth poll option lets you fill in your own answer.

Maybe some updated variation of this kind of thing should be made official and stickied by the staff? It's a nice way for people to know which "type" of player the other party is, and while ignoring the other person's preference IS NOT breaking a rule, abiding by the person's preference surely makes for smoother activity all around.